I have never truly had a weight problem, but I do watch my weight daily. Here’s why.
Growing up I had a healthy metabolism and maintained a healthy weight. I was a size 6 when I graduated from high school and am now a size 4.
About 10 years ago, while I had the job that required suits every day, I decided that I needed a new pair of jeans to wear that weekend to a football game at the local university. I didn’t wear jeans that much and the ones I had must have shrunk just hanging in the closet because they no longer fit. So I went shopping during my lunch break. I tried on several different designer lines that I could always count on, but nothing fit. When purchasing new suits at that time, I would frequently have to buy a size 8, but all my size 6 suits still fit, so I was not surprised when I had to try size 8 jeans, but I could not get them up over my hips! I went back to work very frustrated and thinking, “I can’t believe how small they’re making jeans these days!”
Then, in the middle of the afternoon, it occurred to me: Oh, no! Could I have needed a size 10? I remember my mother telling me many times as I was growing up, “Never let yourself become a size 10. Once I became a size 10 I could never get my weight back down.”
My mother has struggled with her weight as long as I can remember, and I did not want that to happen to me. So, heeding her advice, I went on a calorie-restricted diet and lost my extra weight. I will share the details of that diet in a future post.
I weigh at least every other day and make sure I stay between 123 and 128. (I’m 5’6”.) It’s easier to take it off if you monitor regularly and have only a few pounds to lose. I exercise and watch what I eat to maintain that range.
Many women I know give up on their bodies and themselves upon the first inconvenience. Taking care of yourself is not always easy, but it is worth it. Don’t give up; you are worth it.
I never give up because I know that we are in control of our lives. No one else is going to take care of me, so it is up to me to take care of myself; physically, spiritually and emotionally. It is simply a matter of making a conscious decision to be healthy by making healthy choices a part of your routine. To stay mentally alert, focused, and happy, I read (and write). When I encounter a problem of any kind, I start doing research on how to overcome it. I am 100% responsible for my life. Who else should be? God gave us a mind and control over that mind for a reason. He wants us to be healthy and happy, but we have to want it as well.
Posted under Inspiration, Motivation
This post was written by Debra Moorhead, Motivational Speaker, Author, and Coach on September 7, 2006
