Update to Weight Loss Article

How I Lost 25 Pounds in One Month is the most popular post on this website. Over 250 (UPDATE 8/7/2012 - NOW OVER 1,000) of you have e-mailed me to say that the diet is working for you and your family members, and I can’t tell you how happy that makes me.

Also, some of you have made comments or e-mailed me with questions and at this point, I am starting to get the same questions again and again, so I thought this would be a good time to update the post.

UPDATE 8/7/2012 - The most common question I’m now getting is, “Are there any other systems out there that really work?  I don’t necessarily want to count calories.”  So after much research, I’ve found a site that reviews weight loss products and keeps us all updated.  I’ve signed on with them as an affiliate - that’s how much I believe in what they do.  Check them out and let me know what you think!

The most common question I receive is about the caloric need calculators, which are not the same today as 10+ years ago.  Most of you were expressing your concern over the number of calories they calculated for you under my plan compared to what I remember eating way back then.  So I went back online to try to find a calculator that would give me 1425 calories for a 5’6” female wanting to weigh 123 pounds.  Guess what – I didn’t find one.  All of the calculators returned a number of around 1630 for me now, at age 38.  When I input an age of 27, the result came back at 1688, still a lot more than 1425.

Obviously, if that had been the number I was given back then, my results would have been different.  Why are the calculators different now?  I don’t know.  But here is what I want you to do.

Most of us have a basal metabolic rate of somewhere between 1200 and 1300 calories per day.  That means, that if you did nothing but lie in bed all day, you would expend at least that many calories.  The taller you are, the higher that number, so if you’re 5 feet or below, use 1200, if you’re 6 feet or above, use 1300.  At 5’6” I would use 1250.

Take the number that the calculator below gives you, add your basal metabolic rate, (1200-1300, depending on your height), and then divide that number by 2.  For example, this calculator tells me I should consume 1630 calories to maintain a weight of 123.  1630 + 1250 = 2880. 2880 divided by 2 equals 1440.  So I would start my diet by consuming only 1440 calories per day.

What I have shared with those of you who wrote me about this, is that after that initial 4-week period, my weight started to go below 123.  Once I hit 118, I began consuming more calories.  I’m just guessing here, but I’d say I leveled out at around 1600 or a dab more, which is in line with what the calculators today are telling us.  I’m betting that they are more accurate today than the one I used over 10 years ago.  That would make sense.  But if you’re not getting the fast results you want, cut 200 calories per day and you will get there faster.  Just don’t go below 1200.

Something else I did not go into in the last article is the fact that there are 3500 calories in a pound.  There are a lot of websites out there who tell you that if you want to lose one pound per week, you need to cut back 500 calories per day.  Keep in mind that that is from your current caloric intake.  So, unless you know what that is, that number is completely useless.

What some of you did, was a double-whammy, where you took the number of calories for your ideal weight, then subtracted 500 from that, which left you way below 1200.  No. No. No. No. And No.  Remember, if you want to weigh 123, all you have to do is eat like a 123-pound person, and you will eventually become a 123-pound person.  Don’t make it harder than what it is.

On the flip side, here’s what some of you have done.  When you use the calculator, you input that you are a moderately active person.  Doing that will automatically allow you more calories per day than someone who inputs sedentary.  But then, you decide you’re going to keep up your work out.  I’ve told you I’m okay with that, (not that you need my permission), as long as it doesn’t “mess you up” in other ways like I talked about in the previous article.  But here is what you do next – you take the number of calories the machine at the gym says you’ve burned during your work out, and you add that to the number of calories the calculator gave you, forgetting that you’ve already allowed for those extra calories in your original calculation by saying that you’re moderately active.  So if you want to use the numbers on the machine, tell the calculator you’re sedentary.  Or forget the numbers on the machine, and stick with the number from the calculator.  Any extra calories you burn at the gym will help you reach your goal faster.  But only if you refrain from eating calories to make up for the ones you burn.

Losing weight is an exact science, but when you throw in too many variables, it becomes complicated.  That’s why I like to keep it simple and not exercise in the very beginning.  That’s also why I limited my diet, for those first three weeks, to only microwave meals and fast food.  This leads me into my next topic.

I know that a lot of you out there who will be reading this are teenagers, more specifically, teenage females.  And while my diet plan makes sense to you, your parents get a little suspicious of anything on the internet.  They get especially suspicious when you start talking about buying microwave dinners to live on for a month and buying a book that only talks about fast food.  You know what; they have every right to be suspicious because they are your parents.  They are responsible for your well-being and they take that responsibility seriously.  Be thankful that you have parents who care enough about you and your well-being to question what you do.  Here’s what you can do.

One reader printed out my article and took it to her mother to read.  Once she did, she understood it and actually helped her daughter with the system.  She has lost 27 pounds, and her mother is starting to use the system as well.

If you have a parent who won’t let you buy microwave meals because of the chemicals that are in them, you will have to purchase a set of food scales and a book that gives you calorie counts for raw foods.  You can still follow the system, you’ll just have a little more work to do.  But you can do it.

If you are anorexic/bulimic, you can use this system to retrain your body back into a healthy way of eating in conjunction with your psychotherapy treatment.  One reader says is helped her keep a sense of control – counting the calories and keeping a spreadsheet.  I can see how that would help because in this system, you eat exactly what your body needs, and not one calorie more. So there’s no need to worry about gaining unwanted weight.  It is very much about control, but it’s easy.

Most importantly, this is not about doing anything unhealthy.  I want you to follow your intuition and do what feels good to you.  If you think the caloric needs calculator is giving you too high a number, take a couple hundred off – just don’t drop below 1200.  If you don’t like fast food or microwave meals, find what you do like that can keep the calorie count of.  If you’ve developed a habit of exercising and don’t want to quit – don’t.  Take those extra calories into consideration and enjoy them!  This plan is rigid only in the number of calories you consume.  How you arrive at your number is completely up to you.  To weigh 123, you must think, eat, and act like you weigh 123.

Our natural state is well-being.  All is well.  I encourage you to look at the reasons you overeat.  For me, it was just plain ignorance.  That was it.  If that’s what it is for you, because I believe that’s what it is for a lot of people, it’s okay.  The good news is, once you find out you’re ignorant of something, anything, you’ve already become more enlightened.  Can you see that?  You don’t know what you don’t know.  Once you become aware of a subject, you can start to learn about it, and come to know it.  I overate because I did not remember that eating more calories than I needed would cause my body to store fat.  I ate because something tasted good and I didn’t want to “waste” anything.  Once that thinking changed, so did my eating habits, and so did my life.

UPDATE 2/20/2009 - A lot of you have expressed concern over the number of calories various calculators return to you.  If you use a Basal Metabolic Rate Calculator, like the one at http://www.bmi-calculator.net/bmr-calculator/ you will get a better “starting point.”  Read the two short paragraphs at the top of that page, and then make a common sense judgment from there.  If you are sedentary, try eating just 150 - 200 calories above your BMR.  For example, my BMR at the time was 1250, I ate 1425, and lost the weight fast.  Your results will depend on your BMR, how much you eat, and how much you burn.  Your enthusiasm and vibrational energy also play a factor, and here are more things to consider. (Back to the original article)

Resources:

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189 Comments so far

  1. Quiana March 30, 2007 8:04 am

    Debra…

    I am starting TODAY! I love this idea and the best part…I don’t have to learn to cook fancy meals. That’s always been my downfall. I am not good at cooking…AT ALL. This is finally a plan that will allow me to do what I need to do (loose weight) without me having to fear I won’t make it due to my lack of cooking skills!

    Thanks a million!

  2. Debra Moorhead March 30, 2007 8:18 am

    Quiana,

    Yes - no cooking! That’s kind of how it started in the first place. My husband was going out of town for 2 weeks and it was a sort of mini-vacation for me in that I didn’t have to cook for all that time.

    You are going to be amazed!

  3. Dawn April 27, 2007 12:07 pm

    Thank you so much for finally explaining this in words that I actually understood. After 27 years of weird and funky diets that never worked, I came across your website and read both of your articles. I started the diet on April 12th, and now, 2 weeks later I have lost 14 pounds. Those are the best results from any weight loss measures that I have ever started. My favorite part is that if I want a hamburger and fries on Friday night with my husband, then I can have it, just as long as I save up the calories all week.

    Thanks so very much for this!

    Dawn, Texas.

  4. Debra Moorhead April 27, 2007 2:48 pm

    Dawn,

    Thanks so much for sharing your results here and congratulations! It sounds like you got it - and the best part is that once you do, you never really “diet” again - it’s just how you live - and it’s so freeing. Thanks again for sharing your experience and please keep us informed.

  5. Jasmine May 2, 2007 8:48 am

    First, I would like to tell you that I think it’s great that you’ve shared your story with the rest of us and provided a practical way to lose weight. Well, I started the plan two weeks ago. I lost 5 pounds the first week but now I’ve gained back 2 pounds. My current weight is 138 and I hope to weigh 125. I’ve kept a food journal and my calories don’t exceed 1350 per day. Should I incorporate exercise? I don’t know why I’ve gained weight. Any suggestions?

    Jasmine

  6. Debra Moorhead May 2, 2007 9:42 am

    I believe either one of three things is happening.

    1 – You’re forgetting to count some calories somewhere

    2 – Your activity level has changed

    3 – There is a medical problem somewhere

    Starting with the last one first, have you been feeling tired or sluggish lately? Extra thirsty? Anything out of the ordinary?

    For number 2, I tell people to not worry about exercise while trying to lose weight – were you on a program and stopped? I would not start a program now, but when you do your calculations, make sure you choose “sedentary.”

    For number 1, I am not coming down on you, my mother does this all the time, “Well, that was a treat so the calories shouldn’t count.” And some people forget to count the calories in their drinks. Just make sure you’re getting everything.

    Reflect on these possible scenarios and let me know what you come up with. We’ll keep working if we need to. It could also just be water weight gain – give it a couple of days and see if you suddenly lose 5 or 6 pounds in one day – I still do that!

  7. meshi May 2, 2007 6:42 pm

    Hi Debrah. I currently weigh 135 and want to lose 25 pounds. I’m 5′3″ and kind of confused but the calculator results. What calorie intake do you suggest I should follow? I also recently started to work out 2-5 times a week for 30 minutes. Thankyou gain for sharing your weight loss experience.

  8. Debra Moorhead May 2, 2007 10:03 pm

    Meshi,

    I suggest you start with 1525 per day and see what kind of results you get.

    Let me know how it goes!

  9. Kelly May 3, 2007 1:04 pm

    I recently read your articles, and I am going to give it a shot. I weigh 220 pounds, and 24 years old. I’m aiming 1400-1500 calories. Assuming i’ll lose weight on this, but i’m looking for results like you had… As you said you lost 20+ in a month! I don’t want to be losing weight for the rest of my life, thats for sure. Today is day 2. How often should I weigh?

  10. Debra Moorhead May 3, 2007 5:16 pm

    Kelly,

    Good for you! Weigh as often as you’d like. I weighed myself every day for a while, but then didn’t need to because my clothes were getting so loose. Then I went back to weighing every day as I got closer to my ideal and the results were less obvious in my clothing.

    Just be sure to count those calories every day. Even if you have to go back and calculate it later, it will help you stay on track and not lose motivation.

    Keep us posted!

  11. Moofred February 5, 2008 10:51 pm

    Hi Debra,
    I have slowly gained weight over the years and had 3 baby 5 months ago. I was doing a search last night for how to weigh 123 pounds and I found your site! I really want to see that number on the scales in front of me. I currently weight 181 and I am 37 yrs old and 5′6″. So lots of similarities to you. I have tried all kinds of diets and get so frustrated. But, I finally feel like I have hope. When you said your science teacher said if you want to weigh 123 pounds, you need to think and eat like you weigh 123 pounds. I’m not sure anything ever made MORE sense to me! I am going to start this tomorrow Feb 6th. I started a couple diets since November and my goal is 123 on May 23rd. Thank you so much for this site. I am excited to read some of your other posts. Thanks so much! Shelly

  12. Debra Moorhead, The Motivation Maven February 6, 2008 7:16 am

    Hi, Shelly, and welcome! PLease keep in touch and let us know how you’re doing.

  13. Miller April 21, 2008 9:01 pm

    Hi Debora. I was reading your article and I just realized that my prom is literally less than a month away!!! Will this plan work if I really do it? I want to look good in my dress… haha

    Thanks :D

  14. There is no limit to what you can do if you make a decision, stick to it in every moment, and have fun with it. Enjoy the journey. The most important part is that when it comes time to eat, you make the choice you really want to make - don’t give in to temptation, or old habits. Planning is important - if you’ve made your choice ahead of time, it will be easier to execute it. Good luck and let me know if you have any questions!

  15. Miller April 30, 2008 10:31 pm

    Hi again…I’m really struggling with the plan…I am so stressed out that I give into my temptations…I get so upset at myself for giving in that I just keep doing it and I tell myself that I will start over again tommorrow and I keep eating…I kind of feel like an emotinal eater…sorry to vent so much…if I want to drop weight like within two weeks should I cut out any breads and pastas? What is the fastest way?

  16. Miller,

    Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you - I’m away at a conference. The fastest way is to eat foods that have staying power. Things that will fill you up but not take too many calories. Lean proteins and high-complex carbs - lean meat and non-starchy vegetables.

    The pattern you’re describing is exactly what my mother does. It’s what I call the “always on a diet except for when it comes time to eat” phenomenon. Since you are so stressed, and I’m going to assume that there’s nothing you can do about that right now, try planning your meals in advance as much as possible. That way, you won’t need as much willpower. Give yourself lots of options and be good to yourself in other ways.

    Let me know if this helps. I’m here for you.

  17. Kelley May 24, 2008 11:46 pm

    I have a question, you said that if it didn’t have a countable number of calories, then you didn’t eat it. This might sound stupid, but does this include vegetables that doesn’t have calories like celery and lettuce?

  18. Kelley,

    No. I didn’t explain that well. I just didn’t eat things if I couldn’t get the calorie count for them like a candy bar or microwave dinner or a meal from a restaurant - things like that - things you know would be substantial. Back then, I wasn’t in to vegetables that much. Now I live where I can grow my own and I love eating not only lighter, but healthier, too. I did have a book for celery and lettuce and like, though. I think it was something like 10 calories per cup. But I’ve heard many nutritionists say that those calories can almost be considered “negative” calories becuase they do so much to help you burn more calories just be eating them.

    I hope that answers your question, but we can discuss it more if you like.

  19. Monica September 22, 2008 9:56 pm

    Did you have alcoholic drinks during your diet?

  20. Monica,

    I did not consume alcoholic drinks during my diet. I chose to save the calories for the good stuff. As with everything else in life, it’s a matter or choice.

  21. Wiliam September 29, 2008 2:54 pm

    hi Debra, I started this diet last week. I weigh 268 now and i set my goal as 220 because that’s what I graduated from high school as and that’s what my doctors have been telling me in the past as a reasonable first goal. Anyhow, my calorie intake at that level (deskjob, 6′ tall male) is 3100. This seems like a lot of calories! I have not been starving myself, the opposite actually, having a hard time getting every calorie in. Since starting this I have had a ton of energy and less depression, but not sure if the pounds are coming off. Should I stick with this or reduce the calorie intake to 2649 which would be my ideal weight 188. I have never weighed that much in my adult life and I have a large body frame. Thanks again, – William

  22. I would go for the 188 since there is very little difference, calorie-wise, from where you are to where you want to be. Consistency is the key.

  23. catherine October 11, 2008 10:04 am

    dear Debra,
    thank you so very much for offering this new theory of weight loss! I cannot wait to get started. Here are my stats:

    Number of Calories to Consume: 1200
    Goal Weight: 95
    Pounds to lose: 25-30 (hopefully by November! Is that possible?)

  24. Edward October 24, 2008 1:31 am

    Hey Debra,
    I’m very excited about this diet. I read both your articles. I started today
    I’m a 25 year old male
    I’m 5′10″ with a medium to large frame and I currently weigh 224 lbs
    I’ve decided to set my first goal at 200 lbs!
    My calorie intake came up at 2034 (which is: (2818 + 1250)/2), does that seem right to you?
    once I get to 200 lbs I plan to setting a new goal of 185 and will probably try to stay there. Let me know what you think! thanks

  25. Catherine - how tall are you? 95 lbs. seems thin. Keep in touch!

    Edward - Any number is a good place to start. If you’re not seeing the results you want, drop by 100 calories per day until you do like what you see and how you feel. Keep in touch!

  26. Edward October 30, 2008 9:46 pm

    hey, it’s me again, just giving you an update…
    so I’ve been doing this for a week now and have already lost 5 pounds! This is awesome, I’m not starving myself, I’m eating better and I feel more energetic everyday!

  27. Fantastic, Edward! Keep up the great work and thanks for keeping us informed!

  28. charity n November 6, 2008 3:12 pm

    hey Debra than you for your blog . i love reading it and i already feel like my life is changing . my outlook is more positive . i am trying out this new way to lose weight .. i have tried slimming world..weight watchers and other random stuff and ive nevr really enjoyed them.. i like the idea of eating for the weight you want to be ..i will keep in touch and let you know how it is going ..i am giving myself 6 months to lose around 50 pounds ..i currently weigh 242 pounds and my healthy weight is 155 ..my greatest weakness is writing stuff down but i like the idea of didving the calories into breakfast , luch and dinner. please keep writing your blog ..i find it so inspirational

  29. Alia November 9, 2008 4:10 am

    Hi Debra
    Thank you for this informative website. After reading your blog I think this would be something I would love to try. I plan to start it from tomorrow. I’m 5′7 tall and weigh 220 lbs. My desired goal is to be 140lbs. My calorie intake should be 1595 but I decided I’ll go with 1500 calories. I was wondering is it ok if I workout? My workout should probably burn around 300-400 calories. I hope it works for me. I really need to lose 20lbs in a months time.
    Thanks.

  30. Elizabeth November 18, 2008 5:19 pm

    i started the diet a week ago today and consume about 1450 calories a day. i am 5′5 153 at start. It is a week later and im only 150.5. Do u see a dramatic weight loss later on in the diet? Eating less calories is actually not as hard as i thought! Please email me back!!

  31. Elizabeth - For more dramatic results, cut back a little further, like 1350, especially since you don’t seem to be struggling any with the concept. Let us know how it works!

  32. Jessie November 21, 2008 5:03 pm

    This looks very promising! With it being so close to Thanksgiving I am going to wait until after to start this, but come Dec 1st I am excited to see what kind of weight loss I can achieve!
    I am 5′6
    27 yrs
    197lbs :(
    Since we are the same height I plan on going with the same calorie plan you did of 1440/day. Does that sound right to you?
    Also, for people like myself who have a lot of weight to loose (74 lbs myself!) Can we expect to loose at around the same rate as other successful people on this diet? I know it is dependent on many factors any everybody is different, but I was just wondering if this plan is suitable for those of us with substantial amounts of weight to loose.
    Thanks!
    Have a Happy Thanksgiving!!
    ~Jessie

  33. Jessie - welcome aboard! You will actually see weight loss even faster if you cut back to 1440, and yes, I think that’s a great place to start. Keep in mind, however, that rather than go off the plan, it would be better, if you’re getting terribly hungry to start out with a higher allowance - maybe 1525 or so, and then once you get results and start to plateau, drop back to 1440. Does that make sense?

    Keep in touch - I appreciate you!

  34. Jessie December 3, 2008 11:54 am

    Hi Debra!
    Thank you for the speedy response. I have a question… When I count my calories (like I have in the past) I find it hard to eat enough calories… Like today,
    Breakfast-220
    Lunch- 373
    Snack- 55
    Dinner- 330
    Total- 978 That means I have to eat 462 more calories! If I feel satisfied at 978, is that ok? I know the whole no lower than 1200, but why eat if I am not hungry? Then I find myself just shoveling anything in my mouth to get up to 1440…. Can I save all of those calories for the weekend?

  35. Jessie - are you getting the results you want? If so, I’d continue doing as you’re doing. Sure it’s okay to save them for the weekend. You might find that on a particular day you need a few extra calories and you’ll “have them to spend.” Stick with whatever is working.

    Keep in touch–

  36. Diana Evans January 3, 2009 1:51 am

    Hi Debra!
    I just started on this plan of eating on January first and really, REALLY hope that I lose at least 25 pounds by February 12th. I currently weigh between 132 - 135 pounds (it fluctuates) and am 5 1/2, 27 years old. I gained all this weight (35 pounds) in the past year, and if I can get back to somewhat of a normal weight in a month’s time, I will be ecstatic! On a side-note, I actually eat what I want and calculate the calories through online resources— do you think those various sources are too unreliable and risky? Thing is, I LOVE cooking. Also, fyi, I am eating 1250 calories/day. Let me know what you think, and I will certainly be back in touch to let you know of any progress/set-backs.

  37. Diana,

    I’m not sure about the online resources since I haven’t tried them myself. Others have had success with them and I think it is at least a guide. Remember that you don’t have to give up cooking forever. The idea is to use what resources you have to retrain your body into eating the proper number of calories for you. Stick with what you know and you’ll be fine.

  38. Dara January 12, 2009 5:09 pm

    I see on an earlier post that you recommended that someone who is 5′3″, 140lbs and wants to lose 25 lbs should make a goal of 1525 calories per day. I am the same size and have a similar goal. The issue though is that I don’t eat THAT much more than that already. (I’d estimate between 1600-1700) and I exercise 3 times per week. I know I can’t do 1200 (it’s just not enough) but do you think I should use your 1440? Or another number? The calculator gave wayyy too much, 1800+, more than I already consume. Any advice on a number? Thanks!

  39. Dara,

    You’re really going to like this - that 100-200 calories is really all that is keeping you from your ideal weight! I was amazed as well. Now, if you cut back further, you will lose weight faster, but then you’ll have to adjust again without going overboard. It really depends upon your goal. Are you trying to lose weight by a certain time and/or a special event?

  40. Dara January 16, 2009 8:26 pm

    Thanks Debra!I thought about that fact after I wrote it. It DOES make sense!

    I’ve been trying to stay under 1440 and if I go over, I either go to the gym or eat fewer calories the next day. Do you think that’s ok, or should I stay under 1440 regardless of whether I work out?

    I’d like to lose 25 pounds before a trip in the middle of March. Any suggestions for a calorie number, maybe lower than 1440?

  41. Dara, I think 1440 is fine. As long as you are tracking how much you go over and compensate accordingly, you should still see your desired results. I would focus on keeping my vibes high and energy up - whatever that takes. I really believe you can reach this goal - do you?

  42. marti January 25, 2009 12:02 am

    Thank you so much for your help….this plan has really helped me and my husband…I was about 10 pounds heavier then i had wanted, and I always had to try the fad diets….i would end up losing the weight but gain it back when i stopped….it left me frustrated and feeling very down about myself, but then i found your page and when i read it, it made complete sense….i started eating like a 120lb person and wrote down everything i ate….now not only do i know what is going in my mouth and how much i consumed, but i have managed to keep the weight off for a couple months now (which is a personal record) and i don’t see it coming back…so thank you….

    Your article also helped my husband who managed to lose 30 pounds in one month by following your advice….my husband has a ton of problems (from tachycardia to indigestion to always getting kidney stones and getting sick, trouble sleeping etc) and so he was on a so many prescriptions that i lost count….but once he started losing the weight, his indigestion got better, he was able to sleep, his heart hasn’t acted up, and he hasn’t gotten a kidney stone in several months (he used to get them every couple weeks)….and on top of that, he feels a whole lot better about himself…

    Thank you from both of us…because of you, my husband and I are happy, healthy, and able to keep up with our little one, so thank you so much :-D

  43. Dara January 26, 2009 9:02 am

    Well, I THOUGHT I could, but after two weeks of staying within the calorie allotment, I’ve only lost 4 pounds! Very discouraging. And yes, I’m counting every single thing I eat. I’m going to try to go to 1350 and see if that helps at all.

  44. WOW, Marti! Thanks so much for sharing all of that and you’ve totally made my year! I don’t know what else to say, and just realized that there really is nothing else to say - you said it all. I am so happy for both of you and so glad my article helped.

    Dara - let me know what happens with the 1350. Are you still going to the gym?

  45. Cynthia February 2, 2009 12:46 pm

    Hi Debra,

    Thanks for this wonderful web-site!
    I am planning to start my weight loss today, but just wanted to confim my calorie count.
    I am 35 yrs old, 5 feet tall and weigh 165 lbs (just had a baby). I am aiming to lose 50 lbs (goal of 115 lbs).
    When I did the math, I should be consuming 1568 calories a day - does this number sound accurate? After reading all the blog posts, my intake amount seems high.
    Thanks again!

  46. Cynthia - I am having a dickens of a time finding a good calculator. I don’t know why the ones today are so screwy. I’m 5′6″ and was shooting for 123. 1425 got me there and even lower. 115 sounds very reasonable for 5 feet. If you’re ready for the challenge, I’d say drop to 1200 and see what happens. Here’s the thing - you can always eat more - LOL!

  47. Chuck February 17, 2009 6:28 pm

    Hi Debra,

    I stumbled upon your website by accident, and am I ever glad that I did! Wonderful articles. I am very excited to try your weight loss program. It makes absolute sense. I do have a couple of questions though.

    1)I am 52, do I need to adjust anything due to my age?

    2)You said you used an excel spreadsheet to track your calories. Is there any chance of posting a screenshot of it, or would you be willing to create a download link for those of us that are spreadsheet challenged?

    Anyway, thank you so much for all of the valuable information!

  48. Chuck,

    I don’t believe in age adjustments for anything - except experience!

    Several readers have shared their excel spreadsheets over the years, I will dig those up and send them to the email address you listed in your comment. I’ve also included them in the freebies in my New Years 09 article. I’ll set up a new autoresponder for them as well and add them to the bottom of the article.

    Thanks for your comment and please, keep in touch.

  49. Megan February 19, 2009 6:38 pm

    What a wonderful plan! I had not thought of it in these terms, but it makes sense and I’m going to do it. The only part of it that does not make sense to me is the rapidity of your weight loss.
    I am 5′-7″ and 175lbs, and I should be at 135lbs. According to the calculators I need 2386cal to maintain this awful weight, and 1841cal if I were at 135lbs. Applying your method of (1841+1250)/2 would put me at 1545cal to get down to 135lbs. 2386-1545=841cal/day difference, which works out to 5887cal/week, or 1.68lbs when you consider 1lb=3500cal. This has to be a fairly typical scenario, so why is it, do you think, that people are losing weight at a more rapid pace than this?

  50. My guess, Megan, is that it is the excitement and vibrationally energy improvement that people experience when they are on this diet that is contributing to the “non-scientific” part of this. It’s that combination where practical meets spiritual, and once people get it, they really get it. The best part is, it doesn’t take long.

    Let us know how you’re doing–

  51. Jaimie March 12, 2009 1:45 pm

    Hello Debra,

    I’ve been reading this site, and comments for several weeks now. I’ve been on and off, thinking if I should try it or not. Since my luck is never hopeful I haven’t been able to try it until just yesterday, I’m giving a go at this along with the week of Yoga I’ve started doing. I try to have positive energy, because the negative simply brings anyone down, you know?

    I just have a few questions just to affirm that I am doing this correctly.

    I weigh 210 lbs, I’m 5′0 and I chose to stick to a 1304 caloric intake; does this seem plausible? I just don’t want my body thinking it’s going “starvation mode” on me!

    I’m actually handling the diet pretty well, I’m fine with the 1304 calories I’m consuming, I just don’t know if I’m going too low or if this is a problem?

    Also, I’m glad you shared with us, your methods, and I hope to see excellent results as much as you and much of the people on here. Everyone seems positive and quite hopeful of this diet plan!

    Thank you!

    Jaimie

  52. Jaimie March 12, 2009 1:53 pm

    Oh, I also forgot to mention, I do about 2-5 times a week worth of Yoga.

  53. Jaimie March 12, 2009 6:32 pm

    I’m sorry for posting three times but I’m just a bit confused about certain things.

    I also forgot to mention I do 40 minutes of Yoga every week, except Sunday.

    I REALLY want to try this diet, I just don’t know what calorie intake I should choose, since I do Yoga.

    I tried looking through other websites for more information on deficit calories but that just got me more confused, I don’t know what calorie deficit entails and I don’t know if that’s something significant.

    Point blank, I just want to know how many calories I’m supposed to consume for a 5′0 woman who weighs 260 and does 40 minutes of Yoga everyday, lol.

    I hope I’m not bother, I just REALLY am excited about hopefully trying this diet out.

  54. torie March 20, 2009 7:38 am

    I Debra,
    First, thank you so much for posting this article. I have only been on the diet for 2 days now, and I have already lost 1.3 pounds! I’m 5′4 and 169 lbs. My ideal weight is 120 lbs. I have set my calorie intake at 1428 a day. The problem is that in the past 2 days I have not eaten nearly that many calories. On day 1, I had only consumed 1087 calories by bedtime without realizing it. So yesterday, I tried to eat a little more and ended up reaching only 1120 calories. Although this was still well below 1428, I gained 0.2 pounds. Since starting the diet, I have been filling myself up on mostly fruits and veggies. It keeps me from getting hungry, but it also keeps me below the suggested number of calories. I am enjoying the rapid weight loss, but I don’t want to make myself unhealthy. Should I try to eat more?

  55. AK March 26, 2009 11:07 am

    HI Debra, I accidently came across your blog and i feel very much motivated regarding weight loss.. i have tried each and every way out but cudnt succeded in losing much weight.. this article seems inspirational.. i have started this regimen from 25th march .i am consuming 1300 calories ..are they ok with me??.. i started from 142 lbs and after day two i lost 1 lb .. i am 5 6′ and aiming at 120 lbs.. hope it works.. i will keep myself posted.. thanx a lot for this wonderful information..

  56. Loralea Kirby March 29, 2009 10:05 pm

    Hello! What a wonderful website you have created for us struggling dieters! I have a question for for you. I started your plan last week. I am 40yo, mom of 3. I am 5′4 and weighed 204 last week. I took myself to 1500 calories a day. Do you think that is good enough for now? I have gone down to 196 in 4 days. It isn’t terribly hard, yet… I am exercising quite a bit too- should I compensate for that? I tried to get through the calculators, but I couldn’t understand a lot of it. I think I should weigh approx. 123-125. I can’t even imagine that! So excited!

  57. Jamilah April 1, 2009 12:50 pm

    Hi I just read your page…. And this sounds great. I am 233 pounds but I am looking to loose about 40-50 pounds. I know it will take some time. My only problem is, I am one of those people that gives up when I dont see the results. Hopefully this will motivate me to loose the weight and look fab for this coming summer. I want to jump start my diet and it looks like your page will help me. Thanks again :0)

  58. Holly April 2, 2009 10:36 am

    I have tried something like this in the past, but could not bring myself to stay on such a restricted regime every single day. I am 5′ 5″ and 136 pounds. I typically consume 2000 calories a day so this plan would be quite a deficit for me. I think I might try this again, but instead of worrying to meet the exact calorie limit each day, I am going to let myself go over some days as long as I reduce and make up for it the following days. I think that this would help some people not feel so restricted and free to have a day here and there as long as that is made up for in the following or previous days. I am going to go for a month at 1520 and see what happens.

  59. Pamela April 4, 2009 2:19 am

    Debra:

    Isn’t this approach very similar to Weight Watchers, where you count points, and in effect, calories? Also, why am I hungry two hours after eating vegetables for lunch? (I am a vegan). What are the right foods to eat that will stay with me for more than two hours at a time? Thank you in advance for your reply!

  60. Karen April 17, 2009 3:55 pm

    Hi Debra,
    I came across your website today and was so amazed! Your website is very motivational and I thank you for that! Currently, I am 5′1 and weigh 140 lbs. I would like to be 123 lbs in one month. How many calories should I consume daily? I didn’t understand how to calculate it based on the info your blog. My BMR is 1419.1. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

  61. Capri May 14, 2009 2:57 pm

    Hello, Debra! thank you for your inspiration,wow. Can you make it a bit simpler for a busy mom, I’m calculator-confused: I am 40 yrs. old
    I’m 5 ft. 2 in
    current weight: 145
    want to weigh: 123

    Thank You! Capri

  62. Caitlin May 27, 2009 10:30 am

    Hi Debra!

    I started this about a week and a half ago and for the first few days it was working great! I was losing about a pound a day which was really promising.

    I’m 5′3 and trying to go down to about 112 lb. I was 136 and dropped down to 132 and was eating about 1425 calories.

    Then one morning I woke up and I hadn’t lost any weight so to compensate, I started to gradually drop my calorie count. Now I’m down to about 1200 calories and in the past 5 days I’ve been hovering around 132-131lb I’d really like to go under that 130 mark by the end of the week. Should I bump my caloric intake back up to 1425? I’m not feeling sluggish or anything (although, I am feeling quite hungry).

    You’re advice is much appreciated. This is a really helpful article, I’m so glad you took the time to share your insights!

  63. Adriana June 7, 2009 4:08 pm

    Hey Deborah,
    I’m not sure if it’s too late to say this, but I found a really easy way to determine how many calories to eat.
    If you multiply your future weight by 11 and 12, you get a good range.
    For example, for 123 pounds:
    123×11=1353
    123×12=1476
    You got great results eating 1425. So I think it’ll work for people. I think shorter people should go for the smaller number and taller people for the larger number.
    Just a thought, I guess. And if someone else already mentioned it, I’m sorry for wasting your time LOL.

  64. Adriana - I love it! Thanks so much for sharing that!

  65. Andrea Lee July 24, 2009 10:26 pm

    Hello Debra, it seems like you’re a good instrument to many people.

    I am moderately active.
    Here’s my question:
    Goal Weight: 105lbs.
    Height: 5′4

    If I use Adriana’s method (#63)
    the result: 105 x 12 = 1,260

    The other method:
    BMR result: 1323.25
    so, 1323.25 + 1,250/2 = 1,286.625

    which is which? Please help me. :)

  66. PJ October 1, 2009 7:01 pm

    do acttually SEE the fat loss?
    or is this just for the numbers?

  67. Tiana December 8, 2009 11:23 pm

    Hi Debra!

    I read your article for weight loss a LONG LONG time ago, and have teeter-tottered back and forth between calorie counting and trying other diet methods for a while, noticing that the only time I see real results is by counting the calories. I think your method is smart and effective.

    I too am 5′6″ with a former starting weight of 151 as of November 2. I reduced my calories to 1425 and now weigh 140 (December 8). That’s about 11 pounds in a month, not nearly as fast as your weight loss. I also exercise 6 times a week, 3 days running about 4-5 miles followed by stretches, 3 days doing lighter cardio for 30-60 minutes and strength training. I thought this would possibly lead me to lose weight even faster, but it hasn’t. Am I eating too little? I work a sedentary job so I feel my exercise is important (and have been working out for a long time). By the way, I’m 24. What gives? Any insight would be appreciated.

  68. Emily January 2, 2010 10:49 am

    Okay. Im gonna do this. The calorie counting has always confused me. But i’m gonna try it. I cant cook to save my life so im gonna try the frozen foods. I don’t eat fast food anymore.. so it there a brand you recommend? Also do you take the sat. fats into consideration or the sodium? Strictly calories? Im gonna I think i am gonna go with 1275/per day. I am 24 5′5″ ad 190 lbs. I have already lost a good 40 lbs. in the last 9 months the hard way. But I have reached a block and can’t seem to get through.

  69. norita January 11, 2010 11:31 pm

    debra i need to lose weight so fast ., this is very encouringing i’m about 135 and 5″2 height ,, i waqnt to get to 115 or less
    how did you know the calories for foods like fruit and vegetables ? and meat ?

    i dont work out much ..
    can you help me to find out how many calories do i need to eat per day ??
    plzz as fast as possible i cant stand it

  70. Helen February 25, 2010 4:42 am

    okay… I’m still extremely confused with the calculators and the dividing and adding and etc. I also think there’s some incongruity between your calculations and mine, so I’m probably doing it wrong.

    I was wondering if you can just simply tell me how many calories I need to consume per day. Sorry about this - I’m just not really intelligent in these areas.

    Height: 5′6
    Current weight: 161 lbs
    Desired weight: 125 lbs

    How many calories should I eat per day to reach my goal? Preferably in two months?

    Thanks for your time!

  71. vanessa March 25, 2010 9:19 am

    Is this site still active?

  72. Debbie April 15, 2010 7:15 am

    Hi Debra

    I have ready with great interests the posts on this site. It too have struggled for many years with my weight. I have been having between 1400/1200 per day for the past few weeks without success.

    I am 41 years old
    My BMR is 1590.3
    My height is 5 ft 6″
    I currently weigh 188 lbs and am aiming for 168 lb (to begin with)

    I walk 4 or 5 miles 3 times a week.

    I would be grateful if you could advise me as to how many calories per day I should be consuming to get to where I want to be. I have tried to apply the information above but have just confused myselfr.

    I look forward to your response, and many thanks for the help and hope you give to people.

  73. Faridah Adam July 9, 2010 6:03 pm

    Hi Mrs. Moorehead! I’ve been looking at your article for the past few days and I’m sooo enthrilled at what you an other people have wrote.
    I am 15
    5′4 almost. 5′5 and 160 Ibs Dx
    I’m going to be doing 1550 calories per day. Does that seem like it will work? I want to get down to 130 or 135 by end of august. Please help me!
    Also I wanted to know what happens if you can’t get those EXACT amount of calories. Like what if I can only do 1503 or something like that. Please tell me
    One more thing I am going to Florida in a dew days and I won’t be able to get exact calories for what I eat. What should I do?

    Congradulations and tha k you or everything you have provided. I hope this works!

  74. Eveyln July 9, 2010 7:19 pm

    hi debra,
    I’ve tried your diet for about 25 days now and I haven’t weighed myself because weight broke. However, I feel like I have lost weight. In the 25 days, there were about 6 where I ate a lot over what I was supposed to. Do you think that will affect the weight lose?

  75. victoria August 16, 2010 11:46 am

    im about 150 pounds right now and i want to be 120 as my healthy goal weight. how long do you think this will take following your method? i really need to do this to gain back the confidence i once had before. i would appreciate the feedback thanks

  76. Fiona February 19, 2011 2:20 pm

    I am a little bit confused, so my ideal* BMR that i got using the site you posted on this update ad is 1327. I go to the gym like 3 times a week. So should I necessarily need to add the calories of intake based on the calories i burned? or would eating 1327 calories a day + exercise speed up the process?

  77. Fiona February 19, 2011 2:22 pm

    Oh yeah, another question I wanted to ask was.. I am currently at 184 and I know this sounds crazy but i want to become 110. Should i break this plan up to like 4 BMR’s. Where I split my ideal weights and take it one step at a time to be 160,140,120,110. or should i go directly to eating like im 110?

  78. Jharna March 21, 2011 5:30 pm

    hi debra,
    just read your article and its so inspiring. i have been keep a check on my calories since 3 days. my allowance is 1630 but i find myself being able to finish only 1000- 1200 cause of the change in the kind of foods im eating. will this affect the results? also, i have always been very negative about my weightloss. i feel like whatever on the planet i do, i starve, or kill myself at the gym, i cannot loose weight beyond a certain point. :(
    will this work on me?

  79. debra April 11, 2011 2:53 am

    debra,
    thanks for your website. I found out that all my health problems were related to gluten intolerance so stopped eating gluten, felt great but have gained about 25 pounds. I used to astonish people by the amount of food I ate-but that’s because I wasn’t absorbing food-the problem with gluten intolerance. I didn’t know how to eat properly and I haven’t found any other site that makes sense the way yours does. Thank you so much and I will be starting this diet immediately!

  80. priya April 17, 2011 9:51 am

    Dear Debra,
    I’m 5 feet (f) 24 yrs old and weighing 116.6. I wish to lose 15 pounds in a month. I’m getting married in June my fiance is way too thin and i look too plump in front of him. I read your blog, but way to confusing as to
    (1)how much calories I need.
    (2)I usually eat
    break fast- 200ml(1.5% fat)milk +3 sugar cubes (24kcal)+50g cups musli(205kcal)=229kcal
    does this mean if i can have 300 for breakfast I still have a chance to eat 71 more..plz explain..

  81. crystal April 26, 2011 10:08 am

    I have beeen trying to lose weight for so long. After reading all the success stories on here id love to try this out. I’m 5′5 and weight approx 188. Id love to get to 130. What should my calorie intake be?

  82. Shauna May 12, 2011 12:49 am

    I have been struggling with weight issues for a long time. I am a 20 year old female who lately has been constantly at the gym burning 300-700 calories a day. I am 5′3″ and am currently at 145 pounds. My goal weight is 123 also. I am hoping to be there by June 25 is this a realistic goal do you think? I am thinking 1350 should be a good goal for me for calories. You will have to let me know!

    Ps. I have never been this excited about trying something new. Awesome plan!

  83. Giselle May 16, 2011 9:15 am

    I just read your original & updated article & I’m blown away! I decided to start today & i wanna be ready for our family trip to Panama City Beach (my fiance is going with us too :D). We’re leaving June 9th. I’m 5′4ish, weighing 151. My goal weight is 125 so I’m planning to do your strategy. Thank you & I’ll keep you posted on my progress!

  84. mady June 9, 2011 4:55 am

    hiiii…i have a question..i need to lose 50 lbs in 3 months..so if i take 1400 cals a day..would it be fine or i need to get exercise ? i dont want to get loose skin..

    btw m 189 lb rite nw 19 yrs and 5′7

    please let me know
    thank u

  85. chitra July 8, 2011 6:14 pm

    Dear Debra, great approach and article !!

    One question for you : I should use my current weight for the BMR calculator above
    http://www.bmi-calculator.net/bmr-calculator/

    or my target weight ?

    Your prompt response is highly and greatly appreciated.

    Thanks
    CHitra

  86. Laura July 12, 2011 3:32 pm

    Dear Debra,
    I have just read your article, and although its a little on the old side, its probably the most useful thing I have found without a price tag or placebo’s, so thank you for that! I have been travelling for over 9 months now and have put on an extreme amount of weight. Its really having a huge effect on me and is impacting on my travels considerably. I have 2 months left and the thought of returning home the weight I am or weighing even more terrify’s me. Any help or guidance you could give me would be greatly appreciated! Thank you

  87. Jeni July 15, 2011 1:05 am

    Hi Debra,

    Thanks for your wonderful article on how you lost 25 pounds in a month. I thought it was super encouraging and most of all it made sense to me! :) I am looking forward to trying this way of eating…and have already calculated the amount of calories needed for my future weight. I just wanted to know if you could post some of the frozen foods that you got started on…esp. the brand names…if you would. Thanks so much! Jeni

  88. sarah July 17, 2011 5:41 pm

    It is 2011 and I have just found this article. I am using an app. called Lose it to help keep track. Thank you for the article. It finally made me realize how very little the calorie difference is between maintaining a 150 lb person and 125 lb person. It is broken down to about 1 can of soda a day, 1/2 a candy bar etc… NOT WORTH IT!

  89. Malissa July 29, 2011 12:13 pm

    Hi Debra, First of all let me just say that this whole idea is amazing and makes a lot of sense to me. I started counting my calories two days ago on a Wednesday. I began at 150 pounds and I’m 5′2″. My goal weight is 125 lbs. The calculations that I did came out to equal eating 1527 calories a day. After one day, I had actually gained two pounds. Yesterday, I weighed back at 150 lbs so I cut off 100 calories; now I eat 1427 calories a day. Today, I still weighed 150 pounds. Am I doing something wrong? I haven’t exactly been eating all of the calories (It’s actually kind of hard getting all of the calories in). Also, do you think my intake of sodium is a problem, since prepackaged meals have a lot of sodium in them? Thanks for your help!!

  90. Mike August 12, 2011 10:31 am

    I just wanted to thank you for this article! I have been trying a VERY similar version to this diet, and losing an average of one pound per day. Everyone I had told about my results INSISTED I was going to drop dead in 10 minutes. I told them there wasn’t a HUGE change in lifestyle, and that it was just being concious of my intake and activity. Every website said to try and lose a pound a week by having a strict diet, which means it would take me about a year to my goal. I know the lifestyle wouldnt have been able to hold my attention if the results were so slow. I am glad that I have found advacates of doing it quickly, intelligently and responsibly.

  91. Mike August 24, 2011 10:21 am

    Update: since my last posting, I am down 12 pounds (which was exactly 12 days ago)
    Basically the only difference between your version and mine, is spending about 45 minutes in the gym per day. 5 minutes warming up, 35 minutes of running on the treadmill or eliptical then 5 minutes cooling down. (I get to 500 calories within the 35 minute portion, then I begin my cool down.) I am also using an app called “MyFitnessPal” for my iPhone. It is an extremely detailed calorie counter, and keeps everything updated. I hope this helps anyone who may want to try to make some nice changes in a relatively short period of time. One last piece of advice for some (like me when I started) if you aren’t able to run for a long period of time, try turning the treadmill incline WAY up, and have a brisk walk. The calories burned are about the same as running.

    Thanks!

  92. Maria September 14, 2011 10:41 pm

    Debra, this sounds amazing. I can’t wait to start, once I understand it. I’m a teacher and I would have a great time planning my calorie intakes. However I’m a little confused on how I get that number you spoke about. When calculating the bmr, do I put my goal weight or my current weight? Whatever that number is, is the number I eat in a day? Correct?

    Thanks :)

  93. Lynette Jenkins September 15, 2011 4:59 pm

    Hello,

    thanks for the article. I would like to start this on monday, but would like to know I’ve calculated right.
    current weight - 173lbs
    desired weight - 140lbs in 2mnths
    BMR for 140lbs = 1400
    meaning I need to eat 1680 calories a day?

    Is this correct and is it a realistic goal?

  94. Leslie September 20, 2011 11:25 am

    I have a question…I am very interested in starting this today. I currently weigh 154 (5′5” 36yo female). When I calculate my BNR, I get 1461.2. By adding 150-200 cal to that, seems really high. What do you think? Shouldn’t I stick to something closer to 1200-1250?
    I am wanting to get back down to 125 lbs.
    Thank you! I am so excited about trying this.

  95. Mike - thanks for sharing your thoughts and success!

    Maria - Use your goal weight to see how many calories you should be eating and then stick to that. Let me know how it goes.

    Leslie - do 1450 and trust the process. Believe me, you’re going to appreciate those extra 200 calories at some point during the day! Please stay in touch!

  96. Michele October 1, 2011 12:03 am

    Having trouble understanding calculations.
    Female
    Age: 46
    Current weight: 147 lbs
    Desired weight: 123-127 lbs
    5′ 4″
    Sedentary lifestyle
    How many calories should I consume daily?
    I am a “boredom / emotional” eater. How do you overcome that? I eat when I am not hungry and don’t seem full, and I eat a lot of calories.
    How can I accomplish results?
    I need inspiration and don’t have a great support system or any friends to help me along with anything.
    I want to try my best and give it a good shot
    I want to start on Monday.
    thanks for the great webpage.

  97. Jassi October 3, 2011 5:13 pm

    Hi Deborah,

    I have been using your diet method and am really happy I stumbled upon it while searching for ways to lose weight…I am 5′5 and weigh 145lbs and am 26 yrs old…I started your diet and lost 10 lbs but am stuck on 145 now….I eat 1200 calories a day…am I doing something wrong?

  98. Michele October 14, 2011 7:30 pm

    So I have been doing the 1425 calories for two weeks now. I have “saved” up calories for treats, not much success. Maybe as we get older this is not effective. Does it take longer when you are in your mid-forties? I guess ppl want to see quicker results and become impatient. I have not given up yet. I will keep trying. I wish for the success you had. I will continue, pray, say my affirmations daily and keep counting calories. I have noticed that my will power is stronger than before. I only seem to have small difficulties on the weekends because they are not so scheduled with the meals. Awaiting your reply, Michele

  99. lisa November 2, 2011 2:21 pm

    I currently weigh 180 lbs and my goal weight is 145 lbs. I am 5′7 female. If I have figured your calculations correctly I should consume around 1550 calories per day. I take Zumba classes 2 to 3 times a week (1 hr sessio) and on opposite days I walk on my treadmill for about 30 minutes. Will this make a difference in my calories?

  100. Cindy November 18, 2011 4:30 pm

    I feel fortunate to have come across this site. I’m learning so much from Debra and all of the commenters. I am 56, 232 pounds, 5′2″. Pretty sedentary for the last couple of years but I prefer to be active and used to walk 2-3 miles several times a week. I’d like to shoot for a goal weight of 160 right now. According to the calculations I need 2020 calories to maintain this weight. My BMR comes out at 1683.7 in order to “eat like a 160 pound 56 year old woman”. With the notes I’ve taken, I believe I need to eat about 200 calories above my BMR to lose weight, which I’ll say is 1800/day. Am I on the right track?

  101. Michele November 24, 2011 1:25 am

    I have given up on waiting for a reply. I have not been on this site for over a month. I gave up once again. I have decided to get back to the basics in my home first before I can concentrate on me. I am getting rid of all things that are not a necessity in my home/de-junking. Re-painting and decorating. After all is done, then I feel I will be able to enjoy life more and be moe mindful of myself, eating habits and exercise. Feel free to email me with suggestions or support for my self esteem.

  102. Madison December 21, 2011 10:48 pm

    Thank you so much for this! I’ve been struggling with my weight the last year and today decided I need to do something about it. So I look online and the first website I come to is yours! Lucky me! My goal is to lose 30 pounds, I hope it works :)

  103. annie January 2, 2012 8:35 am

    Hi Folks, I just found this website Dec 30 2011. It’s clear to me Ms. Moorhead is no longer on it. But I had a few comments for all of you posters: 1-She is 5ft6in. I am 5ft3. It’s not just pounds. To replicate her BMIndex at 123 would be 113 pounds for me. So, since I weigh 158 now, to lose as fast as she did, I would have to calculate the calories based on a weight of 113, even though I want to weigh 125 (hey I like my cleavage, what can I say). But I also am starting an intense workout program–I paid the trainer before I found the website. So I must add calories to the sedentary level amount. If I don’t, my body will think it’s starving because it won’t have enough fuel and so I won’t lose any weight. A la some of these posts.
    So, I go to caloriecounter.com website and calculate the calories I will burn for my workout and add that to sedentary level of calories for a 113 pound person. This way my body will have enough calories for a 113 pd person who is working out.
    2-There is a lot of neediness coming through on these posts that want Ms. M to do the work for them. Reread the two articles as many times as you need, but this is your problem, not hers. Don’t ask her to do the calcs for you. I am sure that’s why she abandoned this site.
    3-Michelle, you are in charge of your own self-esteem. Here’s what you do: If it feels good, do it. If it doesn’t, don’t. I understand the need to dejunk first. I did the same thing. But you can do this too, it’s really easy and gives plenty of calories if you eat natural foods.
    Good luck all.
    S.

  104. annie January 2, 2012 10:19 am

    it’s not fair of me to say Ms M. abandoned the site. But I really don’t think readers should be frustrated because they expect her to do all the calculations for them and reassure them. You can do this yourselves. Just use your noggin. She has laid out a wonderful plan

  105. Sumara February 17, 2012 1:29 pm

    Hi Debra
    I am excited to try your plan. I am slightly confused as to how to determine my ideal Calories. I am 5′6 and weigh 137 with a goal weight of 120 (my wedding weight five years ago). I gained 50 pounds in both of my pregnancies the past three years and the first 30 has always come off quickly but the rest is much harder. So should I follow your calorie formula based on my current weight of 137or my goal weight of 120? Thanks for the support!

  106. Rene March 14, 2012 10:59 pm

    ******If anyone is reading this I have read the articles about 5 times each I would really appreciate if you know how to calculate I would definately appreciate any help you can offer

    PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
    hi thank you for this info so much Im calculating my calories on a website and they say i should eat 1200 calories but i want to do your system but I cant seem to figure out how to calculate …
    my start 225
    goal 123
    height 5′4
    age 29

  107. Rene,

    Go in phases. Start with a goal of 200 lbs, then 175, etc. The calculators still work, use the links. If I were you, I’d start with 1700. Then 1600, 1500, etc. Walking every day would help you as well. (Even though I say not to start an exercise program, being active is important. So don’t think of it as exercise, so much as just getting a little healthier.)

    Hope this helps.

  108. Mandy March 17, 2012 4:48 pm

    Hi Debra alright so I’m starting this plan i calculated that i should eat 1350 calories a day hopefully this works,fingers crossed .I Have a huge vacation in the summer and i must lose weight. :) so I’m a vegetarian and my diet really consists of wheat i drink at least 8 glasses of water hopefully this works i currently weigh 187 I’m the same height as you do you think it’ll work ? any suggestions?

  109. Mandy March 20, 2012 6:11 pm

    hi debra quick question can i eat absolutely anyting in this plan if it means i’m in the right calorie count? i’ve been eating whatever i feel but i make sure that i don’t go over my calorie # :) thank you

  110. Marissa March 21, 2012 4:34 am

    Debra, thank you, thank you, thank you! You are incredible! I came across your blog a week and a half ago when I was googling “how much weight can I lose in a month.” My best friend’s getting married in five weeks and I’ve been really discouraged by my weight for the past couple years. When I graduated from high school almost three years ago, I was 115 lbs, active, fit, and very happy with my body. A week and a half ago, at 21 years old and 5′2″, I weighed in at 144 lbs. On my small body, that’s quite a lot of weight. This article helped me realize that it was my own ignorance that was making the number on the scale slowly creep higher and higher. When I sat down and took a hard look at what I was putting into my body, I realized that I was eating close to 2,000 calories a day! I know in high school I was only eating about 1,500 calories a day as well as exercising daily. It makes so much sense! If I want the body I had in high school, I need to eat like I did in high school. Your article helped me realize that I CAN take control of what I eat and, in turn, take control of my body. I am a 110-pound person, and in just this week and a half, I’ve gotten 9 pounds closer to that goal. NINE POUNDS! I’m ecstatic! And the best part is, that last night I ate a piece of lemon cake as well as 15 m&m’s and when I got on the scale this morning…I had lost a whole pound from the day before! This diet isn’t about punishing yourself, killing yourself at the gym or denying yourself the food that you enjoy. It’s about retraining your body to consume only the amount of calories that it needs. I love this diet, the mindset, the idea! And I know my body loves it too! I can already see a difference in my face, my arms and my stomach. My jeans are starting to get baggy as well. I feel great! Thank you so much Debra!

  111. Marissa March 21, 2012 8:18 am

    Oh, and just to be clear, because I realized after I submitted my previous comment that it sounded like I was eating 1500 calories now because that’s what I ate in high school–I’m not! I very strictly eat 1220 calories a day because I’m not currently working out. Obviously, if I was eating 1500 a day and not exercising, my results would be very different. 1220 is the perfect number for me. I love looking down at my plate and knowing that I can eat every single bite guilt-free and that I don’t have to get down on myself just because I don’t feel like exercising…and I’m still losing weight! Love it.

  112. Mandy - that’s exactly right. Good luck and keep us informed!

    Marissa - Excellent! I love how you get it! I am so happy for you! You’ve motivated me!

  113. Mandy March 24, 2012 1:26 am

    Debra its not working ! i’ve been doing the plan for exactly a weel and i haven’t lost a pound i’m the same weight! i’m 5′5” and consume 1369 caloies and nothin plz do help !!! i havea huge wedding event coming up in a month and i weigh 180!

  114. Mandy March 24, 2012 1:27 am

    Debra its not working ! I’ve been doing the plan for exactly a week and i haven’t lost a pound I’m the same weight! I’m 5′5” and consume 1369 calories and nothing plz do help !!! i have a huge wedding event coming up in a month and i weigh 180!

  115. Mandy March 24, 2012 1:32 am

    just thought i add this in occasionally i ate like 100 calories + over and then exercise it off do you think that’s whats affecting my results ?

  116. Mandy April 5, 2012 7:16 pm

    Debra please hlp i’ve been coming to this site everyday for the past while but no reply!

  117. Mandy,

    I’m very sorry - your comments have not been showing up. I am obviously having technical issues.

    You’re obviously consuming too many calories. Try dropping down to 1200 for immediate results.

  118. Everyone,

    I will have an update out soon!

  119. Mandy April 23, 2012 7:27 pm

    Okay thanks Debra :) I will restart today! or tomorrow it everything has so many calories and i end up hungry its crazy!

  120. Irena May 3, 2012 7:19 pm

    I’m starting this program but have a question about nursing and this way of eating. I’m in the process of weaning but haven’t completed the process yet. I know the average nursing mother burns 300-500 calories per day. Although I’m supplementing for about half of my feedings. I’m 5′6 and weigh 203 pounds, my goal weight is 132. I’ve calculated everything and plan to eat 1569 calories. I’m not planning to take in any more calories to offset the ones burned during nursing because if I burned 150 nursing, it still would keep me in a nice range for my height. Has anyone tried doing this for more than a month? What other success stories do you have about people who have MANY pounds to lose. Honestly, it is very motivating when you read about another with similar stories. ANYONE??? Debra, thank you for starting this blog, I know you are very busy but any info would be greatly appreciated.

  121. Irena,

    There have been many success stories throughout the comments sections and I’d say that most stay on the diet longer than a month. It looks like you’re calculating everything correctly. Check out http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog/index.php/how-amanda-lost-35-pounds-in-six-months/

  122. Mandy May 6, 2012 10:21 pm

    i lost 5 pound just to inform you now i need to keep it up

  123. Mandy May 6, 2012 10:48 pm

    btw awesome podcast:) motivates me :) thansk so much debra ;) i really hope i can keep it up i still don’t feel like i really lost it seems like an illusion :)

  124. Irena May 7, 2012 1:06 pm

    Thanks Debra, I’ve started today ans will post later of my progress. Thanks for the link, I’ll check it out.

  125. Irena May 7, 2012 1:22 pm

    I also meant to ask on my last post but forgot. If you have 70 pounds to lose and if you weigh 203 pounds 5′6 and eat 1440 calories how long do you think it will take me to get to 133 pounds approximately? I read the articles over and over but still haven’t found any that could help me figure this. I wondered if people lose 25 pounds or close to each month they remain eating in their calorie range or if they have lulls and plateaus to work through. I understand you need to drop you calorie intake at those times but has anyone experienced major loss in a few months time? I’m trying to lose 70 pounds by the end of July, is that a realistic goal? What do you think Debra?

  126. Camille May 8, 2012 10:41 am

    Finally found where to comment! I was browsing through the old one and realized too late about the update. But good thing I was able to consume something near the updated calculation.

    My height is currently 5′0 weighing somewhere between 126-129 lbs (it varies because of water weight I think) I always drink lots of water because of diet meds I’m taking. I also did the 30 day shred of Jillian just about a day ago for over a month and a few days it made me lose about 11 pounds as I was originally 136 lbs or more but eventually stopped because of muscle pains.

    Anyway I am aiming to weigh 92-97 lbs in a month or so,I plan to take 1200 to 1250 cal a day. Is that okay?

    Please advice, thanks!!!

    Planning to just disregard our weighing scale too because it seems confusing and sometimes disappointing lol.

    Hope to get a reply from you or contact email. Thanks!

  127. Shauna May 27, 2012 9:44 am

    Hi Debra
    I know this is an old post, but in reading all the responses I’m wondering if everyones weight loss is really a result of eating at your future maintenance level or really just a result of eating between 1200-1500 something calories. I ask this because it seems that this is the calorie range everyone (mostly the woman are aiming for). However, my goal is 150, I was 140 in high school and able to wear a 4-6. Now at 35, 5′6 and 163 that’s the weight I’m aiming for, but many calculators tell me to eat anywhere from 1540-1800 while sedentary, so I gues what I want to know have any women been successful eating over 1500 calories without exercise.

  128. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva May 27, 2012 10:43 am

    Shauna,

    You’ll likely just have to try it and see if it works for you. I’m 5′6″ and I think 1540 would have me around 150. I now try to stay under 140, at age 44, which puts me in a 4 or 6, and eating depending upon how much I exercise between 1500 and 2200. I’ll be posting an update regarding new apps and other things that have come along since my discovery all those years ago, so stay tuned. But for now, if that’s what the calculators are saying, try it, and see what happens. I like to eat, and I like how my body looks right now. Isn’t that really all that’s important? The calorie counting is just a tool. Sometimes you need a fork, sometimes you need a spoon, and sometimes you need a knife. Sometimes you don’t know which you need until you try one. So go for it!

  129. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva May 27, 2012 10:49 am

    Mandy, how’s it going?

    Irena, it’s really impossible to predict the timing of these things. Remember, the article is titled How I lost 25 pounds in one month. It recounts MY story. The main point, is that calorie counting works, is scientific, and if you keep it simple, will be a simple plan to follow if you don’t throw a bunch of confusing details into it. I lost very rapidly. Others do, too, some more slowly, but they’re still happy with their results. It’s all about being happy and excited. So just start a plan, decide to pursue it happily, keep it simple, stick to it, and watch the pounds melt off.

  130. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva May 27, 2012 10:58 am

    Camille,

    You’re on the right track, and 1200 is okay. 95 pounds puts you at an ideal weight. My only concern is this; is that sustainable for you? Will you be okay if, say 3 months later, you’re at 110? If so, why not shoot for that now? You are just at the top end of “normal weight” according to the BMI index. I’ve found that being in the middle of that range allows me to live like I want to live, and that’s more important to me. However, if you want to do this just to say that you did it, and you’re excited about it, then go for it. So you say, “okay, I’m going to hit this, and then relax a little. I’ll be healthier, and have flexibility. When I see the scale climbing and feel my clothes getting tighter, I’ll back off for a few days.” I’ve found this to be an awesome way to live. It’s more about balance. But hitting a target can be energizing. So I’m here for you. Please keep in touch.

  131. Tracy May 28, 2012 12:50 am

    Hi Debra, I just found your blog today and can’t stop reading it! ! I use the iPhone app “my fitness pal” as my food diary, but haven’t been consistent. Your blog has motivated me to lose as much as I can before vacation (leaving on July 5). I have looked at numerous calculators and I come up with about 1312 calories daily? Sound right? I am 40 y/o, 5′4 and currently weigh 170. My goal is 130. Any advice you could offer would be greatly appreciated:)

  132. Shay June 7, 2012 2:19 pm

    I found this article yesterday and have never been more hopeful about losing weight! I am a 43-yr old woman and have tried EVERY diet, supplement, exercise DVD and device available! To think that something this simple will allow me to lose the 52 pounds I am targeting is absolutely amazing. I am 5′8″ and currently weight 202lbs. My goal weight is 150. Based on my calculations, my daily calorie intake is 1500. I have started today and plan to stick to frozen meals. I will keep you posted on my results…..fingers crossed! :)

  133. Mandy June 9, 2012 4:54 pm

    Debra its going well Thanks for asking :) I’m keeping track of everything i eat never try to go over 1200 i think someday its even less but weight loss is a slow process it takes time different bodies mean different timings

  134. Ash June 9, 2012 9:26 pm

    Hi! Today, I decided to change my life style in order to get to my desired weight and I really had no clue on what I was doing! I have dieted before, but not correctly and they don’t seem to work. Then as I was losing hope on even trying to get back to a healthier me , I came across your website, and it looks very promising! I’m wondering if I try this is there a way to speed up the process? Would I have to cut out calories? And when you lost the weight was it mostly fat or no? What would you suggest for someone trying to lose the fat . Haha:-) but thank you for your time !

  135. Tina June 10, 2012 10:22 pm

    Hi Debra,
    First off, as many other readers have said, thank you so much for posting this article and being so responsive to your readers! You’re truly an inspiration! I started this program yesterday and wanted to confirm that I was doing it properly. I am 5′6 like you and decided to go with your calorie count. However, I am currently also breastfeeding. I read on several sites that each ounce of milk is about 20 calories. So throughout the day, I am actually consuming a lot more calories because I guess breastfeeding burns those calories. Would that mess up my diet or is that the right way to go? Thanks!!

  136. Megan June 11, 2012 2:31 pm

    Hi Debra! I’m 21 years old weigh 119lbs and 5′4.5. My goal weight is 100lbs. I tried the diet for a few days and haven’t seen any results. I’m wondering if I have the right number for the amount of calories I should intake. On the calorie counter you gave it says 1364kls to maintain 100lbs at sedantary and my BMR at 1240. I added the two and divided by 2 to equal 1302 calories a day. Is that right? How come I’m not seeing results. I even but it a bit lower to 1250 calories and still nothing. I’m counting every calories trust me! Please help!
    Thanks!

  137. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva June 19, 2012 1:49 pm

    EVERYONE - I am having trouble downloading and answering comments sometimes because my internet connection at my apartment is too slow. I am working on the issue, so please be patient.

    Tracy - How’s it going? Your calorie count sounds right on and the app should be helping you tremendously if you just stick with it. Would love to hear from you!

    Shay - update?

    Mandy - do we need to refine things?

    Ash - be easy about it and enjoy the journey! Happiness before reaching your desired goal is critical.

    Tina - thanks for the nice comments. Breast feeding burns calories, so take that into account. I would need to look at your situation personally to give better advice. Let me know how things are going.

    Megan - 100 lbs is underweight for your height. Why is this your goal?

    Aisha - I ate everything I wanted, just smaller portions. Lean Cuisines were my staples. The most important aspect is to make a life change that you can sustain. You are likely currently consuming an average of 2200 calories per day. If you’re going to drop to 1450, you’ll want to choose foods that make you feel full, but pack fewer calories, so proteins and lean carbs are the way for you. Keep in touch - daily if necessary - I’m here for you!

  138. Aisha June 19, 2012 4:11 pm

    Thank you so much for the reply!!!! I feel really good about this!!! =) I am so ready to make a change!!!!! Hopefully if it works for me I can be motivation for my mom to start as well.

    I am going to go grab some lean cuisines and soups so I have accurate calorie count bc the food I tend to cook - I cannot get accurate numbers and I really dont want to set myself to fail by guesstamating!! :)

    My problem usually is if im on a diet I tend to eat too LOW and when Im not on a diet I just pig out - which means a lot of sugar!!! =( and I usually tend to eat more in the evenings and late night. But that will change - im trying to set myself to eat enough throughout the day and get the right amount of calories.

    I will def keep you posted!!! Is there any other way to contact you?

    thanks a lot!!!

  139. Aisha June 19, 2012 4:13 pm

    also do you think 1450 is a good number to start with? Since I have so much weight to lose I dont want to plateau in the future?

  140. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva June 19, 2012 4:28 pm

    Aisha - we’ll talk about “the plateau” later. 1450 is good.

  141. Aisha June 19, 2012 5:51 pm

    lol … ok thank u!!

  142. Tina June 20, 2012 8:03 am

    Hi Debra,
    Thanks for the reply! I am starting my tenth day on this diet and have only lost about two pounds. I am currently at 140.6 pounds and would like to go down to the desired 123. I’d also like to lose the weight a bit faster. I am setting myself to eat 1425 calories a day, however, for every 20 ounces of breastmilk I pump, I am adding 20 calories. Should I set my calories a day to be less? Also, sometimes I am pumping at odd hours (1am, 4am, 11pm) and I am counting those into the days respectively, starting my day at 12am and ending at 11:59pm. Should I be counting my days in a shorter time frame and just exclude those hours? Thanks!

  143. Tina June 20, 2012 8:07 am

    Also, when you were on a diet, was there a particular time during the day where you didn’t eat? For example, usually after dinner, I’ll look at my calorie intake and realize I have about 500 calories left to “spend”, so I’d eat a snack or something while watching tv before bed. Would you recommend not eating after 7 or something like that?

    Thanks again!

  144. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva June 20, 2012 11:03 am

    Tina,

    If you’ve had dinner and still have 500 calories left, and you’re not starving, I’d try a 250-calorie snack before bed to try to get faster results. You’re actually at a healthy weight right now, so results might come faster for you if you can find something to get excited about in your life in general. Age has a lot to do with it also - and the breastmilk certainly throws a kink in there as well. Keep in touch!

  145. Tina June 20, 2012 11:13 am

    Thanks Debra! I’ll try that and keep you updated. I’m currently 30 years old so maybe my metabolism has slowed down..I’m not sure I understand about getting excited about something. Im excited about this diet, does that count? ;) Are you saying if I’m excited about something then the weight will melt away faster? I will keep you updated. Thanks!!

  146. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva June 20, 2012 1:51 pm
  147. Tina June 20, 2012 4:14 pm

    Thanks Debra! Another awesome article! I will try that and let you know my progress! :)

  148. Aisha June 27, 2012 1:58 pm

    Lost 6.4 lbs in 8 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and that is with a 2 day gain of .4! I haven’t measured myself this week - will do every other week or monthly. Just wanted to update everyone with the amazing results!!! I hope they continue at the same rate bc I have a long road ahead i’ll keep everyone updated.

    Thank you Debra!!!!!

    *I meant to make a comment on this article you can delete the other comment*

  149. Marielle July 6, 2012 4:43 pm

    Hello everyone,

    I just wanted to make it more officially for me - I am starting my lifestyle (I don´t want to call it diet) tomorrow - this time properly! I already started it in April very strictly, the first week was weird - I felt very tired all day and in the end couldn´t weigh myself because I was on a vacation - so I couldn´t see if I lost weight.
    I continued this lifestyle using myfitnesspal.com as an app until now, but actually gained 6 pounds because I deprived myself so much when I indulged that I ate even more calories the next day. I have huge problems with late night snacks and meal portions. I also eat when I am bored or frustrated - I went through a tough application phase the last months…

    I will start a new job in one month in an exciting city and wish to fit in my wonderful clothes then. I don´t like the feeling of only fitting in my biggest jeans right now.

    I weigh 162 pounds now and would like to weigh 138 pounds in about 3 weeks and then see how I feel and if I want to go down to even 130 pounds. My height is 5´9´´ and I am 27 years old. I figured out to eat 1326 calories per day (I started with 1200 calories in April and I think this is not good for me).

    My first goal I hope to reach next Friday, exactly in one week - I will post again then!

    Wish me luck!
    All the best for you all!!

  150. Aditi July 16, 2012 8:12 pm

    Hii! I just found this a couple days ago and decided to try it out after vacation. I tried to stay on it on vacation but it was too hard to get a calorie count on every little thing I ate. First of all, for the frozen dinner chemical dilemna, trader joes has some delicious frozen dinner with no preservatives or food dyes or extra chemicals, and they are reasonable priced as well! Also, I use myfitnesspal to help me track, which I find much easier than manually doing it. Its only been 2 days and people are already telling me I look skinnier. However, I went over (about 400) from my caloric intake today. Can I apply the same “saving” idea to the rest of the weak and cut back 400 for the next two days? That way my weekly total would break even, but I am not sure if it will work.

  151. Aditi July 16, 2012 8:14 pm

    Also, for reference I am 5′2″, have a small frame and a large bust so I hope to be around 110, 105 minimum, anything smaller and I will lose my bust area, even though I know it is on the higher side for my weight. I try to eat at 1300 right now, is this good or should I reduce even more? I am currently at 140.
    Thanks!

  152. Debra Moorhead, The Decision Diva July 16, 2012 10:16 pm

    Aditi - Yes - cutting back 400 over the next 2-3 days will work! Thanks for your comment.

  153. Holly July 26, 2012 10:53 pm

    I went to the doctor today for my six week postpartum checkup. I weigh 138 lbs and want to get to 115. I am 5′3 and 32 years old. I am embarrassed to admit that all the numbers are confusing me..Calorie Counter, BMI, etc. because they all say something different. I’ve read over hundreds of your responses and most say around the 1425 range. I want to lose the weight quickly, just as you did. Do I shoot for 1425 or go with 1200? If I go with 1200 and get to my goal weight will I be able to add in more calories and maintain that weight? Thank you for time!

  154. Lamar August 5, 2012 11:21 pm

    Just found your site i love the concept I’m currently 25 male I weigh 185 trying to drop down to 160. To sustain that weight I’m suppose to consume 2255 a day. Sounds right? Or lower it that number? Thank you for your help!!

  155. Crystal August 13, 2012 9:32 pm

    Hi I read your seven achievments plan and I wanna follow it….I wanna impress this guy and if this helps ill happiest person alive right now my weight is 290 my ideal weight is 270 right now and if it really works I plan on using it till my weight goes down to 130 I figure by then it will be January….also I was wondering what foods you brought from the grocery store that helped alot like chicken, turkey etc….and also what snacks will help that I can take to work to snack on thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon

  156. Hannah August 19, 2012 8:20 pm

    Hi Debra! This plan seems to make competly sense and I want to follow it. But the problem is that the calories I eat is much less than suggested in this plan- as a 5,3 tall girl who wants to go down to 100-110, my daily calorie intake is about 500-700 cals, if not less. I know, it’s by far too little, considering I also started walking/running 1,5 hours daily recently. I’m really worried that I might end up anorexic, so I wanted to research about weight loss before it happens and I came across this plan. According to this I should eat about 1300 calories a day which is twice as much as I eat normally. I’m worried that I might gain weight if I eat more. And eating more seems by far much harder than eating less for me. But I’ll give my best to loose weight. Do you think I’ll gain weight instead of loosing if I eat more? Thank you for your help! (My current weight is 136)

  157. Taylor August 21, 2012 7:45 pm

    Hi Debra!

    I love this advice! I’m so ready to start but I just wanted to check my numbers with you first. I’m female, 6′1″, 27 years old. I weight 248lbs, and my goal weight is 185. After using the calculators you provided and adding a little bit, I thought 1850 cals would be good to start with. What do you think? You’re response will be much appreciated! Thanks!

  158. Rob August 26, 2012 2:34 pm

    I’d love to do this, but I’m having some problems and I was hoping someone could help me out.

    All the calculators are returning big numbers. I’m seriously doubting I should eat 2000+ calories a day to lose weight.

    I am: Male, 23 years old, 5′8″, 204 lbs, my goal weight is 170 lbs

    I’ve been trying about 1300 calories a day for the past week (haven’t checked my progress yet)

    Is this too little? Is there a better number I should be aiming for?

  159. lisentume September 5, 2012 5:47 pm

    Hi debra,

    I tried your diet for two weeks and only lost 5 pounds. I am breastfeeding so should i add back more calories? I am 5′8 and want to be 135. I weigh 170.

  160. Stormi September 12, 2012 2:41 pm

    Please email me the excel spreadsheet. The only one I see from you has totals only and doesnt have a place for every food.

  161. lisentume October 1, 2012 6:55 pm

    Hi Debra,

    I sincerely need your help. My self esteem is torn. If i could get the scale moving again id feel so much better about myself. I breastfeed and was told i have to eat more to lose. After upping the calories to 1500, i have actually gained!! Please help. The bmr said to weigh 135 i would have to consume 1275 a day. Does this sound about right? I want to be positive; i just need a push in the right direction.

  162. Anica October 16, 2012 1:16 pm

    Ive been at this diet for almost a week now and every time i see sweets or food or anything i just want to start eating, and i know you said you must mentally motivate yourself but it just wont work i cant say no to sweets and chocolates…

  163. Audrey Grooms October 19, 2012 9:32 pm

    Thank you so much for putting the common sense back in weight loss! Ive been counting calories for 10 days and already have gone from 205.6 pounds to 195.6–10 pounds in 10 days! I’m so excited. Its so easy that I dont feel like I ‘m dieting. Other programs I ‘ve tried seem to neglect the basics, they are complicated and filled with unnecessary work. I’ve never had such a realistic, practical outlook on my eating habbits. You taught me that weight loss doesn’t have to be hard. I can’t wait to get back to you when I ‘ve lost the full 60 pounds!

  164. Stephanie L October 30, 2012 7:26 pm

    Came back to update. I don’t know how, but this system DID NOT work for me. I counted my calories, every calorie. I NEVER went over, usually stayed under, bur was always over 1200. I ate fairly healthy, and if I couldn’t get a calorie count for the food, I didn’t eat it. It worked somewhat for me, but not like it is supposed to. I BARELY lost 10 pounds in a little over a month, and that was with going up, then down, then up, then finally down again. I almost gave up plenty of times, but at least I am losing a pound every few days. Don’t know how it is at all possible to lose 25 pounds in one month. I was really excited to try this, but honestly kind of disappointed in my results…probably because of the hype of it!

  165. Audrey Grooms November 28, 2012 10:38 pm

    Week 7 and I’ve lost 22 pounds… and that’s with taking off a full week for Thanksgiving and not doing it on the weekends!

  166. MedifastDoctors November 30, 2012 5:14 pm

    What’s up, this weekend is good designed for me, as this point in time i am reading this wonderful educational article here at my residence.

  167. Michelle December 5, 2012 2:22 pm

    Hi Debra, you ae great! Totally confused on how many calories I should be intaking. SO I am 32 years old. I currently weigh 160 pounds and my weight goal is 125. I am 5/5 and do not exercise. I have read your blog several times and decided I will go with 1,200. I will work on gettig to my weight goal and then I will go to the gym to tone. Is 1,200 calories okay for me, and if so once I get to 125 how many calories should I intake to maintain? Please email me directly or I will keep checking this website to see if you responded.

  168. Cathy January 14, 2013 6:43 pm

    Hi Deborah,

    I’m 25, 5ft5, weigh 130lbs and have been ‘on a diet’ for the past, ugh, 7 years. I have anorexia/bulimia. I am desperate to be back in control of my eating and exercise and back at a weight where I like my body - between 100-110lbs.

    I understand your diet, and know the calories of so many foods. But it’s like I have some mental block that stops me from actually losing weight. I feel ashamed because all my friends are thin. The fatter I get the more confidence, hope and happiness I lose.

    Please help, thank you.

  169. Renea January 20, 2013 12:12 am

    Dear Debra,
    I’m so glad that i found this diet plan! Debra could you please help me with the calculations??As of right now I weigh 159 lbs, 19 years old, and about 5′5-5′6. My ideal goal is to be 133lbs, and when I enter that in they say my bmr is 1449 and according to your last post you said add 150-200 if you are sedentary, so I did and I came up with 1600. Now you said to add your bmr with 1250 and then divide by 2. I got 1349. Which do you recommend I do? Or should i add 150-200 to 1349??

  170. Renea January 21, 2013 7:41 pm

    Its me again :)Okay well I decided that I will start with 1425 (as you did). I have a question about being exactly at 1425, cause most of the time im always 10 or 15 calories under or 10-20 calories over. Will that affect my progress??

  171. Renea - you’re right on track - keep up the good work!

  172. Renea January 25, 2013 12:51 am

    Update.Okay thank you Debra, I might lower my calories even more because this week i didn’t lose anything but didn’t gain either, but i can say that was completely my fault because i’ve been very inconsistent with the calories. One day was 1640 next 1438,1310,1500,1410. So i think thats why my weight loss has been stunted but other than that i will start fresh tomorrow at 1350. I really have hope in this plan so i’ll keep you posted :)

  173. Ashley January 29, 2013 12:47 am

    Hi Debra,
    I literally read your articles everyday. They’re such great motivation for me! Once I realized I really needed to lose weight, I did the 1200 calories a day, work out twice a day thing. I only lost 1.8 lbs that week. The next week I decided to go with your approach with no exercise and 1425 cals a day (I’m 5′6 too and 123 sounds like a dream) and I lost 2.4 pounds this week with one total bomb day of BBQ and beer. I am happy with the results, but I’m wondering why they weren’t as drastic as yours. Even with the bomb day it couldnt have set me back too much. I also weigh more than you did starting out and I’m 22. Any insight would be awesome!

    Love,
    Ashley

  174. Cressie January 29, 2013 5:01 pm

    Hi Debra! I was wondering will his work of i am breastfeeding a six month old? I am 5′8″,175 and want to be back at 140. The calculations said 1440 calories a day. Does this sound accurate to you. After having 6 children it would make me feel good again about myself to find something that works. Than you for any help you can provide.

  175. Cressie February 1, 2013 1:50 pm

    Hi Debra! I was wondering could you help me with my correct intake. According to the websit it said I should consume 1375 to lose weighr. I am 5′8″ 175 and want to weigh 140. I am also breastfeeding. Does that matter?

  176. Cressie February 4, 2013 4:40 pm

    Hi Debra! I was wondering will this work for me if I am breastfeeding. By the websites you posted it said I should eat 1400 calories to weigh 140. I am 5′8 and currently weigh 175. If you could push me in the right direction I would really appreciate it! Thanks in advanced for your help.

  177. Cressie February 10, 2013 2:16 pm

    Just an update. I have lost 3 pounds since my last post! The quiet excitement is working! I did incorperate the cabbage soup diet without the cabbage. I replaced it with bok choy, as it has less calories and sugar than cabbage. I simply eat it before any meal. I find im not really hungry after eating it. Its only 10 calories per 3 oz.
    Ill post in a few days on my progress. 140 here I come!!

  178. Kristine February 28, 2013 1:39 pm

    Hi Debra!
    I have a question. How come you drastically reduce the calories all the way to the weight you want to be instead of 10 pounds at a time? For example, if I weigh 160 pounds and I want to weigh 125 why wouldn’t I consume the calories of a 150 women then when I reach 150 reduce to the calories of a 140 pound woman and so on and so forth?
    Just a thought I was hoping you could answer.
    Thank you.

  179. Becca March 1, 2013 7:11 am

    This is fabulous! Started my “routine” 4 days ago and have already lost four pounds. Its the first time I have actually found the correct number of calories I am supposed to be eating. Before I always had to many …or not enough…so your article helped me see that the tiny little margin of error on my calories can make a huge difference in the end results;) Thanks so much for your article and your enthusiasm- you have a gift! One question:In your opinion, is a goal weight of 126 for someone 5′8 with a “small frame”( according to my wrist measurements) too low?

  180. Kristine - your idea would probably work - try it and see! The most important part is to have fun and do whatever works for you. I can see that being a viable goal. Let us know how it goes.

    Becca - Thanks for writing in - I’m so happy that you’re enthusiastic, too! 126 does sound a little low, but you could always give yourself a 5-pound range. In other words, 123, which I believe is my ideal, can be hard to keep day in and day out, so I give myself 128 and don’t start counting again or cutting back until I hit that. Otherwise, just try to maintain a weight that feels good to you. I got down to 117 and hated it because it put me in a size 0 and I couldn’t find clothes! So, do whatever make you truly happy.

  181. Erica March 4, 2013 5:12 pm

    Hi Debra,

    I have started your process today, but I did it a bit differently and downloaded an app on my ipgone that counts calories. Well this app told me to consume 955 calores a day in order to get to my 115lbs goal(and lose 2 lbs/week. I am 5′2, 25 years old and do some excecrise here and there but very little. Can you tell me if this is the right amount of calories I need to be taking? It seems a bit less the the norm. Thank you!

  182. Erica - it does seem a little low. Most nutritionists that I know and have heard speak say to not go below 1,000 for your height. So I’d start there. Good luck!

  183. Codi March 6, 2013 6:19 pm

    Debra,

    I just want to say how happy I am to have come across you and this website. I lost 25 pounds last month but have been having trouble losing ever since. I believe the weight fell off because I was over weight. I now weigh 243 and want to get down to 130 before I start college in the fall. I have five months to lose about 110 pounds and thanks to this article, I have discovered how to do it. (I’m 5′7, by the way).

    I am so thankful for finding this. I started this plan today, only taking 1425 calories in and depending on how well this works for the next three weeks, I may up it a little but I don’t think it’s too low. I also do intense work outs twice a day. Sometimes, I’ll skip one work out but usually, it’s intense work outs twice a day.

    I will update you in a week or so and tell you how I am doing!

  184. lisentume April 21, 2013 3:57 pm

    Hi all just to update on my journey. I am down to 163 but its been hard. I have lost more inches than anything. For Debra I have plateaued; should I decrease my caloric intake to 1000 calories while doing 45 minutes of cardio a day? Or would that be counter-productive?

  185. Cressie April 23, 2013 12:49 pm

    Debra,

    Was there something I did wrong to make you skip over my posts to go right to the next person? Was there something I said to make you not want to help me? Its hurtful to check your website constantly waiting for a reply only to get a slap in the face because I felt that I wasnt important enough for you to answer but the next person under me was? I apologize if I said or did anything to offend you.

  186. Cressie,

    What was your question? What kind of help do you need? The last post I’m seeing is your update where you’re doing great! I must be missing something. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

  187. listentume - I don’t remember your other stats, but dropping to 1000 calories a day is extreme unless you’re 5′2″ or below. just get happy while you’re doing that cardio and begin to love the way you look and feel!

  188. Corrine May 7, 2013 1:26 pm

    Hi, I have spent the last couple hours reading over every question and answer and think I’m going to try this. I do have a question though…I very much enjoy my glass of wine with my husband in the evenings, so my question is this I’m 5′4 and about 160lb the BMR says I need 1805.64 to maintain that weight but to loose weight drop that 500 to 1000 cal.
    1) is that the correct intake to loose weight
    2)is a glass or 2 of white wine change anything? Such as BMR total or amount of intake? Or even something I haven’t mentioned?
    My goal is 130 lb over 2 months and I’m hoping for the max amount of weight loose in the shorted time…. Like all of us! Lol
    Thank you for your time
    Corrine

  189. Corrine - every calorie counts. Consume the number of calories to maintain the weight you want to be. Get excited about it and stay with it. Make it a game. Good luck!

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