Today was one of those days when I got to write in my journal, “I am the luckiest person alive.” Rounding off a very hectic couple of weeks, the Golden Chords Concert yesterday came off without a hitch. Everyone performed so well it was truly magical.
When I awoke this morning, snow was falling and covering the ground. It, too, seemed magical. In years past, I might have felt tired from such an exhausting weekend, and a little disgruntled over having to go to work in the snow. But this morning, I was able to light some candles by the fireplace and just watch the flakes fall.
One of the advantages of creating the life you want, is a newfound ability to recognize blessings. When life is coming at you so quickly in a way that wasn’t designed by you, it’s difficult to feel appreciation for your blessings. It doesn’t mean you haven’t been blessed, quite the contrary. For example, we have had many successful concerts, and there has certainly been plenty of snowfall over the years. I failed to appreciate them before because I was too caught up in my decision to allow others to control my life. Once I stepped up and took control of my life’s direction, I now appreciate everything and everyone so much more. Accepting the challenge wasn’t easy, but definitely worth it.
In fact, there have been many advantages to creating my own life. Another that comes to mind is the increased willingness to give to others. Creating the life I want for myself means that I can let go of things – especially things that don’t fit in with my values or that I don’t see contributing to my future. It’s more than just getting rid of clutter; it’s making a conscious decision to take control of every area of your life – including tithing.
Among new age enthusiasts, there is a belief that if you need more of something, you probably need to give up something similar. For example, if you need more free time, volunteer some of your time to helping others. If you desire more clothing or material items, donate similar items you no longer use to Goodwill or someone you know is in need. In my experience, there really is a direct correlation between giving and receiving. Do you want to feel happier and better about yourself? Give someone else a smile and a genuine compliment.
Finally, the best way I have found to create a more abundant life in general, is to give thanks for everything I have. Instead of just thinking, “Wow, snow. That’s nice. Oh, well, got to go to work. I hope I don’t have car trouble today.” I now think instead, “Wow, snow. It is so beautiful the way it’s covering the ground. I think I’ll leave for work early so I can take my time and enjoy the scenery today. I’m so lucky to have a dependable car to drive to work. In fact, I’m the luckiest person alive.”
Your Assignment:
Create a list of 5 or more things for which you are thankful. Take your time and really think about it. Write down everything that comes to your mind. The more items you list, the more abundant your life will become. Feel free to come back here and share your list when you’re finished.
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This post was written by Debra Moorhead, Motivational Speaker, Author, and Coach on November 20, 2006
